Why can't men handle the truth about their sexual prowess or should I say lack thereof? In the past women would never dare to tell a man he was bad in bed. She had no power, not even over her own body so any protest was useless. But now, women have begun to realize that they too deserve sexual satisfaction. We deserve ours just like men deserve theirs. So if you man lacks enthusiasm in bed or just wants to jump on top up you for 5 minutes or less and then roll over and go to sleep, you have the right to tell him you ain't having it. But unfortunately, men can't handle the truth when it comes to their inability to please their women. They don't want to hear it.
Men are even bigger babies than women. Them and their precious egos. The male ego is so fragile. Sure they may not get upset because someone tells them they are gaining weight, but let a woman tell a man that he is not good in bed and all hell breaks loose. Either he gets really angry or sulks. I'm not talking about when his woman is mad at him and is just trying to hurt his feelings. No, I'm talking about when his woman is trying to explain to him what she needs sexually and how he is not giving it to her. She's actually trying to help him, but he doesn't want to hear it. He's the "MAN"and he knows he can work it...LMAO. My question is: If you are such a "man" why can't you handle a little constructive criticism when it comes to your bedroom skills? Why should women have to massage your ego, but you should be able to tell us that we are fat or that we need to make some physical changes and we are supposed to be alright with that?
If women could sit down with men and have an open and honest conversation with men about what they need to do to please them sexually, everyone would be happier and satisfied... :-). Unfortunately that's not the case. Instead we are expected to just sit back and endure mediocre sex and be happy about it. But they would never stand for that. Men are quick to tell a woman when she isn't doing something right or what she needs to do to please him. We deserve the same liberty without the bitchin and/or sulking. Men can dish out, but they can't seem to take it. And you know what they say, "if you cant' stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen!!" Peace
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