Thursday, March 13, 2008
Breadwinner
Does it really matter who brings home the bacon? It seems that more and more women are becoming the breadwinners in there households. Some men can't handle it. Society has taught us that a man should take care of the woman, he should support her and she should take care of the home. Many men are insecure when it comes to dating women who makes more money than them. It's time to get over that insecurity. I see nothing wrong with a man making less money than a woman. It's time for men to see how it feels to have to do the laundry, cook dinner, take of the kids after school. They need that experience in order to truly appreciate the things that women do. If I end up making more money that my man, than so be it. Once you're married you become one. What's his becomes yours and what's yours becomes his. They is no me, it's all about we. Your are a family and it shouldn't matter who brings home more money as long as you love each other and are secure in your relationship. Women are not docile creatures and we aren't the property of men anymore. We are equal to men or better than them. We see the world from a different perspective and we understand the changing times. We push for change, yet some men can't seem to move pass the past. They can't accept that women are no longer relying on them for support, they don't know how to accept their new role. This causes a lot of potential relationships to end or never truly begin and destroys some marriages. It's time to get over it. Times have changed and the roles of men and women in society have changed for the better. Once men can accept this, more women may be willing to date guys who make less than them. A lot of women are tired of guys being turned off because they are professionals and make a nice income. it's not our fault if a lot of brothas don't have educations or don't have the drive to better themselves. We didn't do it. They did it to themselves. We grew up in the same environments as they did, yet we managed to make it. Don't blame us for your shortcomings. Don't feel inferior because you don't make a lot of money. They are alot of professional women who are more than willing to date a man who makes less money, they just want someone who will treat them right. That's more important than any amount of money.
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