Does anyone out there have a man whom she has been with for some time and yet he runs scared whenever you mention marriage or weddings? I attended a wedding yesterday where the best man joked about how he was the last man standing. The only one of his friends not married. Is this still a badge of honor once you are over 30? Doesn't it complicate your life when all of your friends are married and you are the only single guy hanging around and your friends can't hang with you like they used to so now you're stuck trying to meet new people or sitting in a bar alone trying to hit on girls.
Marriage is not a curse. It can be a wonderful thing when the two people are truly committed and right for each other. Not every marriage ends in divorce or is unhappy, there are couples who actually still Ike each other ten years after getting married. The point is don't sit in a relationship for 5 years and still not want to marry the girl. If you've been with her that long and still like her, marry her. No woman who wants to get married enjoys being your girlfriend for five years, it's not cute and is slightly embarrassing. So do her and yourself a favor and finally become the groom and not the groomsman.
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