It Ain't Hatin If You Tellin' The Truth

People take the term "hater" to extremes. You can't say anything to a person that he or she doesn't want to hear or disagrees with without the person accusing you of being a hater. Why is this? When did telling teh truth become "hatin"? I believe in being honest with people, for the most part. sometimes he truth isn't what you want to here and it can hurt, but it's not hatin'. Hatin' is when someone is jealous or envious of a person and therefore attempts to bring that person down and make him/herself feel better about his/her station in life. If someone makes a true statement about you and it's without malice, it's not hatin. The truth is the truth. I don't really envy anyone because no one's life is perfect. If I, being an intelligent black woman, tell you something; it's not to hurt you. I want to help you see the light. I have tact and I am not a spiteful person, so please believe me when I say that everyone who tells you something you may not like isn't hatin' on you. Yes the world is full of haters, but not everyone who isn't your biggest fan and kiss our butt is a hater. You know and I know it. So get over it. If you real, you can spot a hater from a mile away. Real recognizes real.